The Bobby Engram Foundation strives to provide hope, courage and opportunity to underprivileged children who suffer from chronic pain that affects their lives physically or emotionally.
Imagine being a father and seeing your daughters suffer through unbearable pain. Even worse, imagine not being able to make the pain go away.
This is what Baltimore Ravens Wide Receivers coach Bobby Engram encountered with his oldest daughter Bobbi and then with his other daughter Phoebe.
Engram has the trait for the hereditary blood disorder known as sickle cell. His wife Deanna also has that trait. This meant there was a one-in-four chance that one of their children would be born with the disease. Fortunately, his two sons Dean and Trey have not been struck with the disease.
Sickle cell disease affects the body’s red blood cells, turning the cells into the shape of a crescent moon. The abnormal shape causes the blood to clump, which in turn causes severe pain. The severe pain is referred to as “pain crises” and causes a variety of problems that can complicate a child’s life such as hip pain, joint pain and much more.
“You’re confused and frustrated. You’re angry. You go through this range of emotions and then you accept it,” Engram said. “You learn and you educate yourself. It’s a tough and horrible disease to grow up with. It can be an emotional drain on everyone. This is a real thing that needs to be dealt with. There’s a lot that people don’t know about sickle cell disease, like that it affects almost all races. It affects millions. It is the most common genetic blood disease in the country.”
The United Nations classifies sickle cell anemia as “one of the most gangrenous common genetic diseases” in the world. It can lead to death. September was first recognized as National Sickle Cell Awareness Month in 1983 by the federal government to increase awareness of this painful disease and recognize it as a public health problem.
Those who suffer from sickle cell disease have to live with chronic pain throughout their lives. Sometimes the pain is so severe that it requires being admitted to the hospital and being treated with narcotics.
The disease causes deformed red blood cells to block the blood flow in a blood vessel. As a result, oxygen and nutrients don’t reach the area that’s covered by the blood vessels. Tissue in the affected area becomes very inflamed and at times it dies. The painful condition is described, “as though small heart attacks are occurring throughout the body.”
The Bobby Engram Foundation was started as a result of his daughter Bobbi’s desire to help other children who experienced her type of pain.
Engram enjoyed a long, productive career in the NFL, which allowed him to be able to provide the best care for his daughters. Unfortunately, they still had to endure the pain and suffering that sickle cell disease presents. The NFL was and still is a platform for Engram to raise awareness, search for a cure and help other families cope with the strains that the disease puts on them.
The fact that this idea started with a child who had a heart big enough to look past her own pain is astonishing. It clearly touched Engram.
“She told me ‘I want to help. How can I help other people?’ For a kid to have that kind of insight, that was very powerful to us. Everything happens for a reason. She’s why the foundation is in existence. Sometimes kids are so honest and they have wisdom beyond their years. She is a blessing.”
The Bobby Engram Foundation has done extensive work with the Seattle community. Engram was a member of the Seattle Seahawks when the foundation was first created. While in Seattle, the Bobby Engram Foundation organized walks to raise awareness for sickle cell in the Seattle area. They did trait testing to let people know if they did carry the sickle cell trait. They also did some genetic counseling with the children’s hospital and worked with the Sickle Cell Task Force of Seattle.
Engram retired from the NFL as a player in 2011 but accepted a job as an offensive assistant coach for Jim Harbaugh, who was entering his first year as an NFL head coach with the San Francisco 49ers. In 2012, Engram became the wide receivers coach for the University of Pittsburgh football team.
The transition from player to coach caused the Bobby Engram Foundation to take a slight step back as Engram had to relocate to the East Coast. While in Pittsburgh, he continued to champion his foundation’s cause by taking part in educational seminars to teach people in the Pittsburgh community about sickle cell.
The Baltimore Ravens hired Engram to be their wide receiver coach last year. Head coach John Harbaugh’s brother, Jim was the first head coach that Engram coached with in the NFL. Jim told John that hiring Engram would have an impact on the Ravens because of the type of leader that Engram is: “He came highly recommended. He did an outstanding job at San Francisco and Pitt. He’s an impressive person. He has helped our offense and our receivers become better.”
Engram hopes to become firmly entrenched in the Baltimore community.
The Ravens certainly got a very good coach and the Baltimore community got an even better contributor. Engram has already made plans to get the Bobby Engram Foundation rolling in the Baltimore area.
“We’re in the process of revamping our website, reorganizing the donor model, fundraising and those things so that in the next year, we can do significant things in the Baltimore community,” Engram said.
Bobby Engram is a man who should be a role model for young men, especially fathers. He is a part of what is good about sports. Engram saw his status as a professional athlete as an opportunity to impact lives and acted upon it.